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Stress Management

Do You Cope with Change?

Many studies have found that people who experience multiple significant life changes in their lives within a short period of time are more prone to illnesses. But even more surprising, illness seems to be correlated with any type of change. In other words, change itself is stressful, and whether the change is positive or negative may be irrelevant to the level of stress we experience. What’s more relevant is that change can trigger the feeling of loss of control, and that having good coping skills can help us manage change and the accompanying stress.

The Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale, developed by psychiatrists Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe, demonstrates the relationship between significant life changes, stress and the resulting impact on health.

To assess your risk for stress-triggered illnesses, add the Life Change Units for each life event or stressor that you experienced during the past year. Your total score may reflect your level of risk for illness (high, moderate or slight) and help you analyze how well you manage stress.

Adults

 Life Event/Stressor  Life Change Units
 Death of a spouse  100
 Divorce  73
 Marital separation  65
 Imprisonment  63
 Death of a close family member  63
 Personal injury or illness  53
 Marriage  50
 Dismissal from work  47
 Marital reconciliation  45
 Retirement  45
 Change in health of family member  44
 Pregnancy  40
 Sexual difficulties  39
 Gain a new family member  39
 Business readjustment  39
 Change in financial state  38
 Change in frequency of arguments  35
 Major mortgage  32
 Foreclosure of mortgage or loan  30
 Change in responsibilities at work  29
 Child leaving home  29
 Trouble with in-laws  29
 Outstanding personal achievement  28
 Spouse starts or stops work  26
 Begin or end school  26
 Change in living conditions  25
 Revision of personal habits  24
 Trouble with boss  23
 Change in working hours or conditions  20
 Change in residence  20
 Change in schools  20
 Change in recreation  19
 Change in church activities  19
 Change in social activities  18
 Minor mortgage or loan  17
 Change in sleeping habits  16
 Change in number of family reunions  15
 Change in eating habits  15
 Vacation  13
 Christmas  12
 Minor violation of law  11

 

SCORING

  • 300 or higher represents a high risk of illness.
  • 150-299 represents moderate risk of illness.
  • 150 or less represents only a slight risk of illness.

 

Holmes and Rahe found that a score of 300 leads to a 90% chance of developing an illness, having an accident or “blowing up.” A score of 150 leads to a 50-50 chance.

Non-Adults

 Life Event/Stressor  Life Change Units
 Getting married  101
 Unwed pregnancy  92
 Death of parent  87
 Acquiring a visible deformity  81
 Divorce of parents  77
 Fathering an unwed pregnancy  77
 Becoming involved with drugs or alcohol  76
 Jail sentence of parent for over one year  75
 Marital separation of parents  69
 Death of a brother or sister  68
 Change in acceptance by peers  67
 Pregnancy of unwed sister  64
 Discovery of being an adopted child  63
 Marriage of parent to stepparent  63
 Death of a close friend  63
 Having a visible congenital deformity  62
 Serious illness requiring hospitalization  58
 Failure of a grade in school  56
 Not making an extracurricular activity  55
 Hospitalization of a parent  55
 Jail sentence of parent for over 30 days  53
 Breaking up with boyfriend or girlfriend  53
 Beginning to date  51
 Suspension from school  50
 Birth of a brother or sister  50
 Increase in arguments between parents  47
 Loss of job by parent  46
 Outstanding personal achievement  46
 Change in parent’s financial status  45
 Accepted at college of choice  43
 Being a senior in high school  42
 Hospitalization of a sibling  41
 Increased absence of parent from home  38
 Brother or sister leaving home  37
 Addition of third adult to family  34
 Becoming a full-fledged member of a church  31
 Decrease in arguments between parents  27
 Decrease in arguments with parents  26
 Mother or father beginning work  26

SCORING

  • 300 or higher represents a high risk of illness.
  • 150-299 represents moderate risk of illness.
  • 150 or less represents only a slight risk of illness.

References

Holmes, T., Rahe, R.. Holmes-Rahe Social Readjustment Rating Scale. Journal of Psychosomatic Research, (1967). Vol. 11, pp. 213-218